Does love ends with relationship?

Love, we all have different meanings and different versions, which mostly doesn’t sync with every person, especially or I would say mostly, not with the person we fell in Love with. Some of us thinks that the extended version of Love is Relationship or Marriage. But is it really?

…& then love happened to us. In our first few months, we didn’t ever question anything, neither our relationship nor our love. As time passed, there came a moment when he left, for something and when he came back, he came with my lost hope for our marriage ever. So, we are not together now. I did take a lot of time to overcome that phase of my life, and I’m glad I made it. Long story short, in that healing process, the trust for him and his love never made me question if he really ever loved me. I convinced myself with something else, which I think is actually true in most of our personal lives. We both had feelings of Love of course but maybe we have different meanings and understanding about it. Maybe for him, if he remembers me for a second, it’s love for him as he cannot get me out of his mind. For me, it’s different. After such an experience, I realized that, “Before falling deeper in love, let’s first explore Love in general, explore ourselves and then the other person”. We broke up, he got married, but even today, I don’t hate him. Few of my friends would be angry at me for saying such things, as a third person, they were so pro to tell me about how he felt and how I did. I can’t unlove a person because he left me. I don’t know, most of the people surrounding me are surprised to hear this. Most of us have kind of linked these two words, Love & Relationship, some have even linked it to Marriage.

Not every love ends on a happy note, where our happy note is Marriage for now. Love is forever! To all those who are in Love, ask yourself once, do you love that person because they are Beautiful or they are Perfect boyfriend/girlfriend, or something else. What if that thing is taken from you, will you still Love that person?

If No, then you might have fallen for few qualities, not the Real Person. My boyfriend has done so many things that hurt me so much, but I never think I can ever stop loving him. Does loving someone is only possible if they are in your digital or social or physical contact? I don’t even talk to him now, yet I love him, still love him. You see, relationships can end, but love never dies. At least mine didn’t. Let’s just first try to understand the difference between these two words. I know in a World where we or others are often comparing us, where peer pressure rules, where jealousy is a thing you should probably have in order to motivate yourselves, let’s gain that clarity that we all are different yet same, it’s okay to have different stories, to make our own path, our own Journey, Just because everyone else have got one, don’t just assume to be in love or try to fall in love with the next possible person you see. It just doesn’t work that way. I’m Sorry if I am offending a lot of people and their feelings, but it’s true, there is a thin line between attachment & love, it’s not actually thin, for you I guess it is. Addiction, attraction, these words aren’t love.

When you’re in love, you don’t cage that person or bind them in a tag just because everyone around you have a boyfriend or getting married. Let’s just feel beyond these labels. Breakup’s & Patch up’s can make their way in and out of your life, Let Love stay.

Is Love worthy of all we do to it in the name of Relationship or Marriage? Let love bloom all the way till it can. Love the person as much as you can, beyond those so called tags. It will liberate you as well as the other person. While everyone is caging their partners in the name of true love, let’s just make ours free to fly. Love them beyond tags.

Relationships will end one or the other day, Love can’t. Let’s make our Love to be free of these tags!

Let Love Breathe…